Today at work the subject came up about a meal of Venison. one nurse felt it was a strong tasting meat and did not like it. Two of the nurses stated they did like it. I asked the nurses how the cooked it and they informed me of the sauce they made to go with the Venison. Of course I had to admit that I liked Venison, however I never cooked it as I informed them that Gary always cooked it and he made a lovely sauce to go with it. I informed them that I have not cooked venison since Gary passed and stated that I was spoiled when it came to Gary cooking me meals. I am glad that I can still speak about Gary with love and affection.

Trica Gary's loving partner.
Patricia McCann:
22/06/2021
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I visited Gary's grave yesterday (Fathers day). Before I helped out giving people their Covid 19 vaccinations. The flowers I placed last week were still there (Carnations) and I placed another bunch of fresh flowers, Roses on his grave. There was a lot of other people placing flowers on their loved ones grave. It seems that no one else seems to visit as I never see flowers placed on his grave. However I will continue to visit especially on special times of the year like fathers day, Gary's birthday etc as a sign of respect for the love I shared with Gary.

Tricia Gary's loving partner.
Patricia McCann:
21/06/2021
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Thursday's was the day of the week that meant Gary would be home on Fridays. As Gary worked away from home. I used to always say to him I wish you would take a job nearer home, that meant he would be at home with me every night. Alas he would say he could not afford too. He was a conscientious father and had a family to support. As I loved him I accepted him as they say "Worts and All" We had a happy, loving 17 years together and I would never change that not even for 'a million dollars'.

Tricia Gary's loving partner. xxx
Patricia McCann:
17/06/2021
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This Sunday is fathers day. My father passed away suddenly on 30th September 2002. I remember the day with sadness. However I take comfort in knowing that every fathers day my mother, I and all my sisters would make it a special day. We would celebrate the whole day as a family together. Because of the experience of fathers day with my father I would always make Gary's fathers day special as well. It was slightly different from the experience of the fathers days I shared with my father. However I made Gary's fathers day memorable. Gary's sons would visit a day or two before fathers day and give Gary a little present. However as it was fathers day I would take Gary for a meal or out to one of our local clubs. How I miss fathers day with my father and Gary.

Tricia
Patricia McCann:
14/06/2021
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It was my daughters 43rd birthday yesterday. She was 22 years of age when I met Gary. Even though she is a daddy's girl (and my only child) she always got on extremely well with Gary. Surprising to me, even though there was such an age gap in their ages they shared the same taste in music. I had a different taste in music. When my daughter would visit us she would sometimes stay overnight in our home. My daughter and Gary would have a good old chat about this and that. I was always glad that both of them got on so well. When Gary passed she said to me she always regarded Gary as a step dad. How loving and respectful to Gary was that. I am proud of her. Even to this day after Gary passed she has remained supportive too me in every way. How lucky I am to have such a daughter.

Tricia Gary's loving partner.
Patricia McCann:
08/06/2021
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21 years ago today Gary and I met. It was a beautiful day, weather wise, even warmer than today. Just seems like yesterday. Happy anniversary Gary.

Love Tricia. xxx
Patricia McCann:
01/06/2021
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Hi Gary retiring to bed. It's been a long day. Miss you being by myside. Your loving partner. Tricia. XXX
Patricia McCann:
30/05/2021
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Oh how I love that advert on the T.V just now advertising KFC. The song that accompanies this advert is Barrie White singing Your the first the Last my everything. The song I would sing to Gary.

Tricia Gary's loving partner. xx
Patricia McCann:
28/05/2021
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My great sorrow is that I was not allowed to lay Grays's wishes with his mothers an father .
Patricia McCann:
24/05/2021
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It's time to go to bed. How I miss Gary at this time of the day. I had a dream last night. I woke up suddenly and he was standing by my side. I did not feel frightened, when I realise it was Gary I woke up. I do not know why I had this dream. I can only imagine it was Gary letting me know he was still looking after me.

Tricia's Gary's loving partner. XXX
Patricia McCann:
24/05/2021
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