Bruce, successful, hardworking, (slightly) eccentric, stubborn, determined, cyclist, orienteerer, badminton player, sailor, husband, grandfather, but most of all my father.
Over the last few weeks, I have received various emails from people talking of holidays spent together, Kirkcudbright, Denmark, Hope Cove, cruises all over the world, weekends in foreign cities with ‘The Gang’, cycling tours of the lake district, Wales, Devon and Cornwall. Always the organiser, when we were cycling as a club together he would set routes dependant on good pubs, with very steep hills for the younger ones to race up just for the fun of coming down again, tiny roads with no traffic (Blacksale Pass where there was no road at all, just sheep paths) youth hostels with gas lighting and no bridge over the river to get to it. Later as we got older, leaving a window open in the Youth hostel so that we could get back in after lights out. When we were on tours, he stopped being my father and just became the tour leader (what happened on tours stayed on tours), I have been told that to some people, he was more of a father figure than their own fathers during those days, guiding us and forming us for life.
I think he was disappointed that I didn’t follow the route of university and business, but he let me make my own mistakes and learn by them, always there to help and support: When Claire, my wife, was very ill in Paris and I had to work, he would spend many hours sitting with her in hospital, reading to her and just being there.
After he retired, he went back to school to learn horticulture, and then cooking(!), he even had a TV cooking show filmed at his house, but basically learned that if you put enough cream and butter in things they will always taste good.
Adam Townsend:
05/10/2020