Dear Caroline, Dorothy, Florrie, Harry, Harry, and Helen,
I would like to express my sincerest condolences for your loss. It is impossible for me to comprehend your grief, but like all who knew Chris, I too grieve over a truly remarkable man.
I really do not know what to write, but I will say that after meeting Chris at Newcastle University I could see he had really endearing qualities, a rare kind of enthusiasm for life, people, and his family. He became a dear and lifelong friend. Neither time nor distance diminished this, with Chris you could go for months, or years without talking, and then with just a quick call, it was like you and he had been together all the time. It is clear Chris led an extraordinary life, with a beautiful family and many friends all over the world. I expect many will have shared the same feeling I did, for Chris made you as an individual feel special, he really cared for people and generously gave his time without any expectation of anything in return.
Chris and I had spoken about meeting up either during a Christmas, or summer holiday. I had so looked forward to getting together, seeing Chris and Helen again, and meeting Florrie and Harry for the first time. Although sadly it can never be like that, I can imagine this meeting and it will live in my mind along with all my happy memories of Chris. And with each tear of sorrow, I feel a joy that he was my friend, the kindest of people, with all his enthusiasm and happiness and the beautiful smile. And that is how I will remember Chris.
I hope it brings you some solace that Chris bought delight to so many people and you are right to be extremely proud of him.
To Chris - I wish you were here
With love from Simon Bonnett.
Simon Bonnett:
22/01/2021
