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The obituary notice of BARRY DEMPSEY

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BARRY DEMPSEYCorporal Barry Dempsey, a combat medic from the Royal Highland Fusiliers, 2nd Battalion, The Royal Regiment of Scotland, was killed in Afghanistan on 18 August, 2008.
He was attached to the 1st Battalion the Royal Irish Regiment and had been patrolling in a joint Afghan National Army and UK peacekeeping team which was part of Nato's International Security Assistance Force (Isaf).
They were travelling on foot near Gereshk when he and three other people - one other ISAF soldier, an Afghan National Army soldier and the patrol interpreter - were caught by an exploding mine.
Cpl Dempsey's body and the three casualties were airlifted to the Joint Force Medical Group Facility at Camp Bastion. Cpl Dempsey's death brought the total British military personnel killed in Afghanistan since 2001 to 116.
The 29-year-old was said to have saved numerous lives during his 10 years of military services. He joined the Royal Highland Fusiliers in 1998 and spent the majority of his career as a medic.
He had been promoted to corporal in 2007 and had also recently qualified as a combat medical technician.
His wife Shelly said: "Barry was a devoted husband and father. He has died doing a job he loved. His family and the Army was his life. He will be forever missed by his wife, children and family. He will never be forgotten. He died a hero."
His commanding officer Lieutenant Colonel Nick Borton said: "Always calm and professional, he was naturally suited to a medical career, and planned to continue progressing in this area. Barry was a stalwart of the Medical Centre - a hard worker, he always volunteered for any task, and was always at the centre of the team, motivating and encouraging the younger medics.
"Barry Dempsey loved his Regiment, but he was above all a dedicated family man, who devoted most of his spare time to Shelly and the children, Andie and Charlie. He was a private man, who enjoyed spending time with his young children. He had a wry sense of humour, didn't take life too seriously and always had a ready smile for everybody."
His Royal Highland Fusiliers comrade and friend Corporal Stephen Quinn shared memories of him: "I first met Barry when my wife and I moved next door to him and Shelly. Even though he was a diehard Rangers fan and I was a Celtic fan we became good friends and Shelly was a great support to my wife during her pregnancy.
"Barry loved his job in the medical centre and talked of becoming a paramedic when he left the Army.
"He loved to socialise with his friends and had built a makeshift bar in his garage where we would watch the football and have a few beers. Even though our football loyalties were different, we used to watch Old Firm games together and no matter what the outcome, we remained friends, although he was first to rub it in when Celtic were beaten."
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Barry Dempsey with his children Andie and Charlie
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30/01/2014
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I met Barry during my phase 2 training at Keogh Bks, he was a great guy, he was a good listener and the life and soul of any party, he was passionate about life and his family back home. He really did love life and his job. Iam glad i had the pleasure of meeting Barry, and it is very sad that i have to write this, he is gone, but he most definetly will not be forgotten R.I.P you buckfast legend!! x

Gillian Neill
14/06/2011
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gillian neill
14/06/2011

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Celia Cabanas
22/08/2010
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Celia Cabanas
22/08/2010

‘Thoughts & prayers we share with you soldier, your families, your friends left behind. We know you have not gone forever, just gone before us. We will meet again.
GOD BLESS YOU - THANK YOU - REST IN PEACE .

For Our Deceased Service Men and Women
You are all-powerful, God, and live forever in light and joy. Look with pity and love, we beg You, on those men and women who bravely fought and gallantly died for their country. By laying down their lives, they showed supreme love for others. Accept, we ask You, their sacrifice and their belief in the justice of the cause they died for. Let their offering not be in vain. Please forgive any sins and faults they may have committed. Speedily, we implore You, bring them into Your Presence where fear, sadness, mourning, and death cannot exist. Have pity in Your loving kindness on those they leave behind. In Your own unsearchable ways, make good for their absence, and lavishly bestow Your love and consolations on those deprived of their presence. This we ask in the Name of Christ, our Victor King. Amen.
"Let us pray for our faithful departed," published Franciscan Mission Assoc.

Pete H
15/09/2009
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I not known barry very long but i do no u r a top guy. we was all so sad to here wat had happend wish we could turn bk time. barry was n still is one off a kind will never be forgotten always in our hearts n thoughts xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx R.I.P xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Ade Inman
26/01/2009
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I worked with Barry at episkopi med centre. I was a civilian nurse and Barry was a new medic. He was enthusiastic and caring and such a lovely kind man. I taught him how to take blood!!! He was agreat guy and Shelley was lovely. I was so shocked to hear of his death. He is a credit to the RHF and the British Army. He was a top guy and will be missed and I am feeled honoured to have worked with him. Love and prayers to Shelley and the children.

Nicola Visagie
08/11/2008
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Nicola Visagie
08/11/2008

I don't know this gentelman, but this picture with these two kids touched my heart. I wish a prosperous life for these two little flowers and may god bless Barry. Hope one day we come to a point that wars become history.

Reza

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04/10/2008
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