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Coping with Grief During the Christmas Period
Published 21/12/2023
As the Christmas period unfolds, the emphasis on family, friends and Christmas traditions can often serve as a reminder of those who have been lost, and those people who are navigating grief can often find themselves facing a unique set of challenges. Here are some ways to navigate your grief during the Christmas period, to help find moments of solace and remembrance to those we have lost. Practicing self- care Taking care of your mental and physical well being is important, especially during a time when emotions are heightened. The hustle and bustle of the Christmas period can often lead to stress so prioritise your self care by ensuring you get enough rest, eat a balanced diet (which can often be hard over Christmas) and engage in activities that bring you peace. Getting out in the fresh air is always a good way to help manage periods of stress and grief. Adjusting your Christmas traditions Keeping up with your Christmas traditions can be challenging after the loss of a loved one. By creating new traditions such as listening to their favourite christmas songs, can help bring you comfort and alignment to your current emotional state. Remember not to forget your old traditions completely as these traditions can provide a sense of routine which may be helpful to those grieving over the Christmas period Limit your alcohol intake It is important to be aware of how much alcohol you may be drinking over the Christmas period. WIth the holiday season often filled with social events and parties, it can be hard not to get caught up in the occasion. For somebody who is grieving at Christmas, alcohol can sometimes worsen the feelings of grief, so it is important to know your limit and be comfortable in letting people know this. Volunteering in the community For people grieving, volunteer work can often be a powerful coping mechanism and with the busy Christmas period there are many opportunities to volunteer and get involved. It gives you a chance to distract your mind from grief and allows you to focus on others instead of your own thoughts. Volunteering also gives you the opportunity to increase social connections outside of your family and friends, which can help provide meaning and improve mental health. Facing the Christmas period while grieving is a horrible position to be in but is one that many people will face. How you cope with the loss of a loved one around Christmas is completely up to you, but remember to make sure you are talking with trusted friends and family about how you are feeling, as living with grief during Christmas can be lonely. Thank you for reading. Don't forget to Follow funeral-notices.co.uk on social media to see when new articles are published: Facebook Twitter Instagram LinkedIn
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Supporting Children through Grief: A Parent's Guide
Published 04/12/2023
Grief is a natural and complex emotion that we all experience at some point in our lives. When children face loss, whether it’s the death of a loved one, the divorce of their parents, or another significant change, they too must navigate the challenging journey of grief. Parents can help to provide comfort and support during these difficult times. Here are some ways you can help your child cope with their grief: Open communication It’s crucial to maintain open and honest conversation with your child, especially when they are grieving. Create a safe space where they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings, and encourage them to ask questions and express their emotions. Let them know it’s OK to feel sad, angry, confused, or numb; grief is often a rollercoaster of emotions, and it’s important they know this is normal. Age-appropriate conversations Your approach to conversations about grief will differ based on your child’s age and developmental stage. Make sure to use age-appropriate language and concepts to explain the situation. Younger children may not grasp the permanence of death, while teenagers might have a better understanding. Maintain routine Children find comfort in routines and stability. Try to maintain their daily routines as much as possible, to help provide a sense of normalcy during a turbulent time. However, they may need breaks or time off from regular activities, so be flexible and understanding with them on these occasions. Encourage creative expression It can sometimes be difficult to express our emotions, especially for children. Encourage them to participate in creative activities such as drawing, writing or painting to help them express their emotions and process their grief. Be patient Healing takes time; there is no set timeline for how long grief should last. Be patient with your child and with yourself during the process of grief. Remember their loved one Help your child keep the memory of their loved one alive by sharing stories, looking at pictures, or creating a memory box together. This can be a meaningful way to honour and remember the person they lost, and will help in the grieving process. Seek professional help If your child’s grief seems particularly intense or prolonged, consider seeking the help of a professional therapist who specialises in child grief. They can provide the necessary guidance and support your child might need. Self care As a parent, it’s important to take care of yourself too. You’ll be better able to support your child through their grief if you’re emotionally and physically well. Don’t hesitate to seek support from friends, family or a therapist for yourself as well. It can be challenging to support a grieving child, but it’s an important aspect of helping them navigate the complex emotions associated with loss. Your love, understanding and support will help them to heal and find their way through their grief. Remember that you do not have to go through this process alone; you can seek support from friends, family and professionals if needed. Thank you for reading. Take a look through our previous blogs here.
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How to Talk to a Grieving Friend
Published 20/03/2023
When someone we love is grieving, it can be difficult to know how to talk to them about their loss and the subsequent grief they may be feeling because of it. Some people may try to make the grieving person feel better with well-meaning words of advice and comparisons of their own experiences with grief, but this can sometimes make them feel worse. Others simply do not acknowledge the passing, as they are unsure what to say. Here are some ways you can speak to a grieving friend or loved one. Express condolences It sounds simple, but just acknowledging their grief by saying “I’m sorry for your loss” lets the bereaved know that you’re there for them and are thinking of them. Expressing your sympathy in this way can also help to start a conversation with the bereaved, especially if you’re unsure what to say. Share your memories If you have any memories of the person who has passed away, share these with the bereaved to acknowledge their absence and the hole they’ve left behind. If you didn’t know the deceased, encourage your friend to share their memories with you. This can be a cathartic experience, and helps the bereaved to focus on happy memories rather than dwelling on the loss of their loved one. Have a conversation Simply asking “How are you doing?” lets the bereaved know you’re thinking about them and gives them an opportunity to be honest and speak about their grief, if they want to. It’s important to acknowledge their feelings and their grief, and it’ll be a comfort to them to know you’re there for them and willing to talk. Listen Sometimes you don’t need to talk at all - just having you there willing to listen can be a big help. The bereaved may want to talk about the events leading up to the death, their memories of the person who has passed away, or even something completely different to take their mind off things. It will mean a lot that you’re there for them. Offer help Ask if there’s anything you can do to help. Grief can be a difficult time, so offering to help with chores, shopping, cooking or funeral arrangements can be a big help to someone who is grieving. It gives them less things to worry about, and lets them know you’re there for them however they need you to be. The best thing to do when speaking to a grieving friend is to be honest. If you’re not sure what to say to them, then tell them that’s how you feel. It’s better than not saying anything at all, and it’s something they’ll probably be able to understand. Make sure to take your cue from them, and don’t try to push them into talking about something they’re not comfortable with. Some people simply do not like to talk about their grief. If you’re still unsure of what to say, why not have a look at our blog on gifts to give a grieving friend, and express your feelings through giving instead. Thank you for reading. To see when new articles are published, don't forget to Follow funeral-notices.co.uk on social media: Facebook Twitter Instagram
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How to support a friend who is grieving
Published 01/09/2022
It can be difficult to know what to do to help a friend or family member who is struggling with their grief. Everyone grieves differently, and will need different things to help them through. Here are a few ideas for how to help someone who is grieving.
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Helping Men Cope With Loss
Published 21/02/2022
Many men have been raised to not talk, cry, or reach out for support. Therefore, their grief tends to stay inside. There is evidence that men are more likely than women to remain silent or grieve in isolation, engage in action-oriented forms of grief expression, or lose themselves in distractions such as work.With the spotlight on men’s health recently, let’s look at how this sensitive time can be difficult for some men to work through and how we can offer support.
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The First Few Days
Published 07/07/2020
You should first contact their Doctor and nearest relative. The doctor will come to formally confirm the death. If it was expected and the cause is known, a medical certificate of Cause of Death will be issued. If the death was sudden or unexpected it may not be possible to establish the cause of death and will be referred to the Coroner who will investigate. During this time you would be unable to register the death but will be provided with an interim death certificate to allow you to proceed with the funeral arrangements
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Bereavement Support
Published 07/07/2020
When a loved one passes away we understand it is an upsetting and difficult time. We have put together the following information with what to do immediately after the passing, help with arranging the funeral, who to contact and coping with the loss in the long term. At such a sad and emotional time, it can be overwhelming if the responsibility falls on you and can be difficult to know what to do next, we hope this information helps. If you are struggling with grief, your mental health or need help right now, view our support page here: Help Needed Now If you feel you are in immediate danger and/or unable to keep yourself or others safe, dial 999 and request emergency assistance or get to your nearest A&E.
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Registering the death
Published 07/07/2020
A death needs to be registered within 5 days of the passing at the local Register Office, if you are unsure of its location you can search online for the nearest office to the deceased's home or the hospital they passed away in. You will need to take the medical certificate signed by their doctor. You should also take as much of the following information as possible which could include:
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Who Do I need to inform
Published 07/07/2020
When someone dies, you should ensure that the following people / agencies are informed of the death as soon as possible:
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The Funeral
Published 07/07/2020
The deceased may have left instructions for their funeral, if there are no clear wishes it will usually fall on the executor or nearest relative to make the funeral arrangements. They will need to choose a Funeral Director to handle the arrangements or can decide to plan themselves. If using a Funeral Director you can rely on their knowledge and experience to ensure the funeral is arranged as efficiently as possible and can offer guidance at a difficult and emotional time. You may already have a trusted Funeral Director in mind but for guidance we work with many Funeral Directors who place many notices on our site and you can find a local trusted Funeral Director listed in our Directory.