In Memoriam for John William (Biddy) BRIDSON

Being both soft and strong is a combination very few have mastered.
But you did.
Always loved.

There’s a little place within my heart
That is with me every day,
A place where all my memories
Are softly tucked away.

It is the perfect place
In my grief for me to go,
For, words could not explain
How very much I miss you so.

And now that once again
Christmastime has
Come around,
It’s where the sweetest memories
And thought of you are found.
Keep shining bright at night.
Love always

Happy times come and go but the memories of you stay forever bid.
Love always

As we celebrate your birthday, we cherish the moments we shared and hold them close to our hearts. You are forever loved and remembered by your cheeky grin.

Though you may be gone, your legacy lives in the hearts of those who love you. Happy birthday to an extraordinary lovely man.

Long after I give up .my heart searches for you without my permission you are always missed and loved xxx

When someone you love dies, it’s just impossible to ignore the sadness and hurt you will feel inside, it’s devastating. A part of you dies too.
Time will make things easier but that sadness and hurt will always be there because they gave you so many good things to remember in your life, you miss them and you really loved them.

I lost my happiness, and no matter what I do I could never go back to how I was before, I wish I could’ve prevented certain things happening, and wish I made different decisions.
I will never forget you.

Consciously or not, we are all on a quest for answers, trying to learn the lessons of life. We grapple with fear and guilt. We search for meaning, love and power. We try to understand fear, loss and time. We seek to discover who we are and how we can become truly happy.

Here’s the thing: every loss is valid. And every loss is not the same. You can’t flatten the landscape of grief and say that everything is equal. It isn’t.