The obituary notice of Sr CARMEL

And the times when I would say something really outrageous; and you would look at me, with a quiet smile, and say: 'Oh really?......How very interesting.'

Xxx

Shalom, my love.

So here I am, at the start of my 80th year, thinking of the times I use to tease you for being soooooo much older than I; and singing that you were one of the ruins that Cromwell knocked about a bit!!

Came across an alternative beginning to that song:

'I'm very, very fond of ruins, anyone here can tell,

'You'd know I'm very fond of ruins if you saw my old gal!'

Couldn't resist this leg-pull, sweetheart.

I love you very much...as well you know xxx

Shalom, my love.

Missing you. Xxx

Shalom, my love.

I have a recording of a radio programme; in which you, and some of your fellow Sisters, speak of life as a Sister of Mercy.

These are my favourite words – spoken by yourself. Words you once said to me, shortly after we met, in 1974:

‘As a child, I had two ambitions; to be either a nun, or a film star. And then…I remember one day looking into the mirror, and thinking to myself, well….I don’t think you’ve got the face, or the figure, or maybe the talent to be a film star. Maybe you should just be a nun!’

In 1976 you gave me the photograph that fronts this site. When I asked why you smile so beautifully…with eyes so bright… you replied: ‘I was thinking of you!’

Fifty years, Carmel. For fifty years we have loved each other. I asked you to marry me (twice!)…but – as expected – you gently declined. You remained faithful to your childhood ambition; to your calling; and I have always respected that choice.

Had we married, so many people who – over the years – were touched by your tender presence; by your unfailing kindness; by your love; would have been denied. To their loss.

They knew you as a Sister of Mercy. I know you as my soulmate. God bless you, my darling.

Shalom, my love.

Still holding you close to my heart.......Now there's a surprise! ❤

I love you very much....as ever 💞