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The obituary notice of DEBORAH WILKES

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DEBORAH WILKESIn memory of Deborah Wilkes, a mother of three children.She was found dead at her home in Leek, Staffordshire, on Sunday August 23, 2009.Family and friends described her as a "loving and caring" mum and grandma.Mrs Wilkes, who formerly worked as a nurse and sister at the University Hospital of North Staffordshire, had three children, twins Jessica and Harriet, and a younger daughter, Rosie.She also left a grandson and granddaughter.Mrs Wilkes, who was 49, suffered from Huntington's Disease.She had worked at the hospital for several years but was forced to leave due to her deteriorating health.A North Staffordshire Primary Care Trust spokesman said: "Debbie was a well respected nursing sister, a valued friend and colleague to numerous staff in the Medical Assessment Unit at University Hospital."She will be sadly missed by all of these people and our thoughts are with her daughters and family at this difficult time."Neighbours described Mrs Wilkes as a pleasant woman who would always speak to them in the street.One resident said: "I think it is very tragic. Mrs Wilkes did not enjoy the best of health."We would often see her walking her dog and she would say always say hello."She managed to remain quite cheerful, despite her condition, which had gradually got worse over the years."Another neighbour added: "She was a familiar figure because she used to walk her dog regularly."She always found time to have a bit of a bit chat. She was a lovely lady. It is very sad."http://www. thisisstaffordshire. co.uk/ leek/news/Tributes-m other- dead-home/article-13 09238- detail/article.html [thisisstaffordshire .co.uk]
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Deborah Cadman nee Wilkes
26/05/2011

I remember Debbie many years ago well before she became a sister in the MAU ... she was a friendly approachable person who you hardly ever saw without a smile on her face. We all have an image of Debbie 'someone who would never hurt a fly.. she was so laid back she was horizontal' ... Staff at the hospital will, I believe all have good thoughts of Debbie, the times I remember most are the fun times when she would laugh at everyones jokes even if they werent funny, the tricks we all played on each other, batting at rounders to the serious side of her at work when she was a real professional. She was always very thoughtful even when my husband was organising a special holiday for me she kept the secret to the end. My heart goes out to Debbie's daughters, Rosie, Harriet and Jessica, i know the pain they must be feeling losing a mum so young. This is a very tragic end to someone so gentle who will always remain in my memories.

Barbara Walsh
15/09/2009
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Deborah was a childhood friend of mine. We spent the summer of 1971 together after we finished Junior School, before we moved on to Westwood High School. We had a wonderful time, fishing in the Churnet and building camp fires in the most inappropriate places!. We even discovered a secret cave together!
We went our separate ways after that, but came together again when we were on the same course when we did our Nurse Training at North Staffs School of Nursing in 1979.
I moved away from Staffordshire in 1992, but I was so sad to hear of Deborah's tragic death.
My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends at this difficult time.

Carolyn Corden
03/09/2009
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Debbie will be greatly missed. I worked with Debbie when she worked as a sister at the N.H.S. She was a kind, caring and loving person. When I needed somewhere to stay, while looking for a new home, Debbie was good enough to let me stay with her, and I was there for 2 years. She was always jolly and full of fun, and loved life even through her illness. Debbie had a heart of gold and would have helped anyone whenever she could. I am sorry for the tragic loss to Eddie and the girls.

Agnes Gibson
28/08/2009
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Debbie was one of the most courageous women I have ever had the privilege to know. I just want you to know that Debbie was a very special person with the most wonderful charm and sense of fun. Debbie spoke to me often about 'her girls', she was so proud of you. She was thrilled to become a grandparent too, I remember her gorgeous smile as she showed me a picture of a tiny baby.
I remain numb and shocked and full of questions as to why this tragic and horrific event has happened.
My sincere thoughts are with you Eddie, Jessica, Harriet and Rosie and I can't ever begin to imagine how you are feeling at this time.
I'm so sorry for your loss, my sincere and fondest wishes to you all,

Helen (HDA)

Helen James
27/08/2009
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Debbie was a nursing sister for nigh on 20 years at the cgh, she was highly respected and always remained so laid back it used to make us all laugh, i was good friends with her for many years but unfortunately lost touch over the past few years.She always made people laugh and we had some brilliant nights out on a thursday and a friday and come to think of it on a saturday as well! and I had six brilliant holidays with her.
To the girls and edd my heartfelt condolences go out to you all and ben and amys, I am so so sorry, she had such a tragic life and what an absolutely awful end!
Remember her smile and her outragious laugh and that lovely picture you have chosen says it all. Debbie had many friends at the uhns and this awful tragedy has rocked us all and I am sure i can say on behalf of all her friends and colleagues she was so brave and an inspiration and we all feel very sad for her and for you all, may she rest in peace x
Andrea

Andrea Vigrass
27/08/2009
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Deb Wilkes nee Ruscoe, has been one of my best friends for over 45 years and for all that time never had a wrong word. She was the most kind, loving, thoughtful, laid back friend anyone could wish for. All through her illness she never moaned and wanted to live life to the full with always more thoughts for others than herself, she loved her three daughters very much and her two grand children, i cant believe shes not here, its still not gone in, will miss her every day and remember her always. So gentle jesus up above please give deb all my love, from Deb and Martin Bowyer and family x

Meg Bowyer
26/08/2009
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This is for Debbie's family.
Your lovely Mum, Debbie, was my boss in the MAU from 1989 until she retired from the NHS due to the diagnosis of that devastating disease. She was the most lovely person to work with/for. Staff and patients loved her and whilst we all worked very hard we had a lot of fun at work and out of it. You girls probably remember the rounders tournaments at the hospital. We never won, but were always enthusiastic about taking part!

Debbie always had a twinkle in her eye and a smile on her face. She was definitely one of the most relaxed, easy-going people have known. After so many tragedies in her life, so bravely bourne, I cannot believe that this is how it has ended.

Eddie, Rosie, Harry and Jessie, please accept my truly heartfelt condolences. All of us who worked with Debbie are deeply, deeply shocked. You are in so many prayers......
Diana Thomas

Diana Thomas
26/08/2009
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