The obituary notice of John DOBSON

19th June, 2026. Hi sweetheart, another birthday today love, Riley is 14. I saw him on Saturday at Rosies meal but he never makes any effort to see either me or Simon. I just put him £20 00p in his birthday card. Normally we would buy him some bits to go with it but I didn't do this time. I have started to think that if he can't make the effort then I am not going to now. It may sound a bit childish but I really can't be bothered these days. It is hard enough just going about my daily routine with all the aches and pains I have without me worrying about someone who obviously doesn't care about me. The same with Lauren who I only ever see if she has been invited for a meal out. Jamie messaged me yesterday to show me he had put your obituary folder in a frame and put it up on his wall. What a nice thing to do. I love you my darling always. Your loving wife xxx E xxx

15th June 2026 hi sweetheart I forgot to tell you it was Jamie's birthday yesterday. How could I have forgotten our favourite grandsons birthday. He is 34 now. I haven't met her but he seems to have a lovely girlfriend. Just hope it lasts and he has found someone who will treat him as he deserves. Hopefully they are right for each other but it is very early days yet. Love you so much my darling. My love forever and always. Your loving wife xxx E xxx

13th June 2026 hi love, I forgot to mention that it is Simon and Helen's 13th wedding anniversary today as well. I think because of all the excitement of Rosies 18th I forgot to tell you. Everything went well tonight and I really enjoyed it, the younger ones were all going out after the meal into Lytham I think. But Samantha and I came straight back home after the meal. Love you sweet. All my love always your loving wife xxx E xxx

13th June 2026. Hi sweetheart, our little Rosebuds 18th birthday today. Can you remember when she was born. Oh love she is so beautiful, clever, and caring she really is a credit to Simon and Helen. Tonight we are going to Tiggies in St Anne's to celebrate. Can you remember we use to go there when Simon and Samantha were younger. I think it was a open kitchen and you could see the chefs cooking your meal. I so wish you could be there with us love, but I know you will be there in spirit. I love and miss you so much my darling. Your loving wife xxx E xxx

2nd June 2026. Hi sweetheart, your Dad's birthday today. Wonder what you will all be doing. Also it is seven years today since you went into hospital for the first time. Simon and Helen were in Florida with Rosie and Jamie. We didn't want to tell them so it did not spoil their holiday, but Simon had guessed something was wrong so we ended up telling them. Oh sweetheart I miss you so much love. I think the little caravan we got last year has kept me sane. I really love it there. I came home on Sunday after having 18 nights there. The down side is the garden is so overgrown, but I have asked Jamie if he will come and sort it out for me. So hopefully he is coming on Friday. I love you my darling husband. Your loving wife xxx E xxx

27th May 2026 hi sweetheart, 46 years today since your lovely Mum died. You went over to see her in hospital but you were too late. I can remember telling Simon and Samantha the following morning about their Grandma. Hope you all have a lovely day together remembering Anniversary's. I think all she wanted was to be with your Dad. Love you so much my love. Your loving wife xxx E xxx

26th April 2026. Hi sweetheart, Derek's 78th birthday today love. I have just sent him a message as I cannot send him a card. I miss you so much darling. You are always in my thoughts and my heart. Love you more and more everyday. Your loving wife xxx E xxx

Friday 3rd April. Happy heavenly Good Friday my darling. I am back at the caravan for about eleven nights. It is a bit chilly but when there is some sun and it comes through the windows it is lovely and warm. Just resting up at the moment but think I am going to read my book for a while. Yesterday was Norahs birthday so I managed to get a signaI and phoned her up. She was so pleased. I think Archie is staying for two nights next week, starting Monday I have booked him in for swimming at 11 30am on Tuesday. The temperature looks as if it may hit 17 degrees. Miss you so much my darling. Will love and miss you always. Your loving wife xxx E xxx