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The obituary notice of Gary (Fleck) FLETCHER

Chopwell | Published in: Evening Chronicle Newcastle.

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GaryFLETCHERIt is with great sadness his family announce that Gary lost his valiant battle against pancreatic cancer on 17th October 2023. He was 64 years old. He was at home, where he wished to be, with his wife by his side. We can take some comfort that he is now free of pain and at peace. Gary was and always will be the beloved Husband of Sharon, much loved Dad of Sarah, Declan and Tyler, Father-in-law of Nathan, Brother of Gail and Kevin, Brother-in-law of Mike, Mary, Shaun and Valerie and Grandad of his soon to be born first Granddaughter. He was a great friend to so many people of all ages and never lost his sense of childish wonder. He found joy in simple pleasures - a walk by the sea, fish and chips, a game of darts and crazy Christmas presents. Despite his physical suffering, he remained determined and positive right to the end, even joking with his wife and the medical team on his final day. He was an incredible man and will be missed by everyone who knew him. Gary wanted a simple, private cremation and asked that people remember him as he was before the cancer weakened him - full of life, having fun, and with a terrible sense of humour! With this aim in mind, friends and family are invited to celebrate his life from 1.30pm on 3rd November at The Central, Derwent Street, Chopwell. Dress code: Jeans and rock T-shirt, the more colourful the better. Refreshments will be available. Donations can be made in Gary's memory to Pancreatic Cancer UK or Parkinsons UK.
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I missed you quietly today. So quietly that no one noticed.
I missed you as I climbed out of bed and as I brushed my teeth; when I waited at the lights on the drive into work and as I heard the rain outside my window.
I missed you as I ordered lunch and as I kicked off my shoes when I got home; as I switched off the lights and climbed into bed for the night.
I missed you without tears or noise or fanfare.
But oh how I felt it.
I felt it in the morning, at lunchtime, in the evening and at night. I felt it as I woke, as I waited, as I worked. I felt it at home, on the road, in the light, in the dark, in the rain.
I felt it in every one of those moments, each one sitting heavier and heavier as the weight of me missing you kept growing and growing.
Yes, I missed you so quietly today.
But I felt it so loudly.
Sharon Fletcher
02/11/2024
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Sharon Fletcher
02/11/2024
Can't believe a year has gone by without you. Love you and miss you HB. Gail xx
Gail
17/10/2024
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I miss the way you cared for me,
In quiet gestures only I could see.
The world would pass without a sound,
But in your arms, I felt unbound.
You made me feel like I was known,
A love so deep, it’s carved in stone.
Each word you spoke, each look you gave,
A quiet promise I felt so safe.
I miss the warmth, the gentle grace,
The way your hands would touch my face.
In every smile, in every glance,
You made my heart believe in chance.
Now days grow long, and nights feel cold,
But the love you gave, I still hold.
I carry it, though you’re not here,
In memories that feel so near.
And though I ache for your embrace,
I know in time, I’ll find my place.
But until then, I’ll dream of you,
And miss the love that once I knew.

I miss you so much sweetheart
Wifey xxx
Sharon Fletcher
17/10/2024
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Sharon Fletcher
17/10/2024
Miss you so much sweetheart.
Wifey ❤️ xxx
Sharon Fletcher
13/08/2024
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Sharon Fletcher
13/08/2024
Thank you for your endless love That helps me through each day
And thank you for the memories That never fade away.
You're the man I married
And I was proud to be your Wife, And every day in some small way I celebrate your life.
And though it's sad to think about The way things were before
When we're re-united
It will
be forever more.
Happy wedding anniversary
Sweetheart.
Miss you more than any words can say.
Hugs and kisses
Your Shazbat
XXXXX
Sharon Fletcher
07/05/2024
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Sharon Fletcher
07/05/2024
Thinking of you on your birthday HB.
Lots of love
Gail.
Gail Coady
04/05/2024
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