The obituary notice of Joyce MOLLET (Nee Baddeley)

Hello Mum,
Happy Birthday as today is your special day where somewhere up in the sky your star is shining so bright. Your light is vibrant, radiant and heals me.

Remember mONu epoch Celestial Calendar. It's two years on your birthday my vision all began. Now I have been writing every day and someday I will write my book after you and now Dad.

~Obviously this is not the platform for it but on this day a year ago this is the picture which represents your day. I Love you to the moon and back.

~Sarah~

Hello Mum,

It has been a long time writing on here yet I do continue to write on my calendar [mONu epoch]. So much has been happening and the feeling of grief displays itself in many ways unimaginable. I focused on the feeling of positively and pleasure. So, I'm most likely going to New Zealand next year for all of Dad's admin so then I can also see Matt. Dad's definitely been a little secretive about stuff.



Anyway, I've helped two elderly people with their end of their life decisions as well. I seem to have a nature ability to point them in the right direction. It's very fulfilling and the process of dying is definitely interesting to learn about. On the little road I live on there has been 4 people that have passed. My dog likes to sit at each home on the lawn just resting; I think my dog is an empath.

Also another interesting fact I remembered: Today you and Dad chose to have a Baptism ritual which you described was administered in the home Moorehead Cottage in Shipley with SALT,WATER & ASH. I remember this day October 15th and it's on my British birth certificate as the date of my Baptism. Miss you always and you have ways of communicating when I need you. Sarah Mollet-Folta

Dear Mum, this is going to sound weird but perhaps not for anyone that has lost someone they love. I hear your voice and your prompts are very insightful and accurate to how I should proceed in my daily life.

It's been a lovely nightmare with all of Dad's business and especially discovering in his files my Naturalization Certificate in America was incorrect spelling of my middle name Monu as Mono which I wondered why my passport was always wrong. So basically my identity has to be corrected in order to do things which means I had to order a birth certificate from England etc. I'm being positive but it's meant turning down moving into a management position in my job because I'm not 100% on my top performance and I had to put my licensing on hold. Life goes on but at least I'm still 100% there for my family. I miss you so much and have been engaging in a lot of prayer~

Love Sarah

Dear Mum

It's father's day in America. Even though we have been doing a lot of celebrating of birthday's etc there is an emptiness pitted in my stomach. I now have another outlet to write which is bitter sweet that it's Dad's obituary. His memorial is coming up next week on June 22nd which has been planned to be very nice. It's also been very strange realizing you and dad are not here at all. And dad hasn't made it easy on me as I am going to have to make a trip overseas to handle his matters; such is life! But eventually life does go on. The only thing is in relation to you wonderful parents, I'm going to have to part with not knowing my side of where I came from. During my childhood and early adulthood it just fitted I came from you which in essence I did in my heart. But, what I am trying to say is I am going to do one of those DNA-Ancestry tests. I imagine I'm going to find a lot about nothing but I going to try at least.

Love
Sarah

Dear Mum

It's been exactly one week since the passing of Dad. Even though it's been hard I am naturally pulled towards not wanting to fall in the pits of darkness. So I'm focusing on my love for dance and continuing to serve people in the community with mental health.

With that said, the kids got many awards at school and Sebastian has maintained a 4.0 GPA since 1st grade. I also learned from my letters of recommendation that I helped and influenced two former work colleagues get accepted into graduate school which is wonderful news to my ears. Yep, trying to be positive. And one last thing, the calendar I once mentioned which coincided with your birthday has flourished into something quiet remarkable.
This weekend is Veronika's 9th Birthday. We will be celebrating!
Love you

Sarah

Dear Mum, its been exactly 5 years since 2019 and four weeks from May 3rd since your [departure]. Moving forward to May 31st 2024 is now a new date to the day when Dad passed. He's been calling for you and asked me to just say I am you. His time of passing was declared by me at 02:00am starting around 01:56-01:59am. I was next to him like with you watching and holding his hand. He had a weak pulse and I lay my head on his chest and felt my last remaining parent leave this world.

This has been hard on the children and Radomir's first time watching the natural death process. But on a positive note, your organizational skills have prompted me to have most of my ducks in a row as Dad's in Northern California now as he wanted his body donated to Science and I've already got him a beautiful memorial service. It's also a blessing my work have given me time off to process and handle stuff. Dad's in comfort now.

Dear Mum,
I must attest you and Caroline have been in my thoughts almost every day. I continue to function and lead a busy full filling life. But now is my next moment for Dad. He is weak unable to fight off his upper respiratory problem. I can't get any fluids down him and cognitively he responds as though he's in a coma. I've chosen to keep him at home and watch the process cuz I know that's what he wants to die in the comfort of the home. It's very difficult trying to explain this to his grandchildren but I am being strong and I'm thinking of you always. As you know I advocated for him to come home from the nursing facility but it's hard to focus on anything watching someone move towards the stages of death. That's my reality and it's happening now for Dad. I love you with all my heart Sarah❤️

Mum, this year a lot of things landed on my birthday from spiritual development to change with the time going forward to wishing you a happy mother's Day March 10th on the New Moon
❤️ love you Mum